Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger.
This week, we hear from Ellie*, a 30-year-old webcam model and camming coach.
Ellie, who’s single and describes herself as bi-curious, says she prefers being uncoupled.
‘It means I can do more exploring and don’t have the ties of a relationship,’ she says. ‘I’ve been to quite a few high-class sex parties, and I also have a lot of fetish encounters due to my line of work.’
But, she adds: ‘That doesn’t mean I don’t like the opportunity to date.’
Without any further ado, here’s how she got on this week…
Warning: The following is, as you might imagine, not safe for work.
On Mondays, I get a lot of submissives online. I call them my ‘Mistress Mondays.’
I can be doing anything from demanding they worship my feet, to encouragingto instructing them to punch themselves in the balls.
Being more dominant comes quite naturally to me and I do feel a sense of empowerment and arousal when I am in PVC and giving orders.
I was blessed with one of my favourite regulars today, too. What a great start to the week! He’s from Norway and loves extreme edging. And I mean extreme. He will only allow one or two drops of semen to drip out, then stop and repeat until he’s spent and exhausted.
I talk him through it and provide all the encouragement he needs. This takes some serious skill and self-control. Plus, this level of edging takes a while, and the longer the session, the more money in my pocket.
Camming was fun today (as usual), but I was more interested in the guy I bumped into while walking my dog. He was pretty hot, so I gave him my number. We’ll see what happens.
Dating can sometimes be difficult in this industry, as people can have preconceptions about the work, but I’m always honest and if they are not okay with it, then that’s their problem.
When I’m in front of the camera, I’m usually streaming, but not always.
Today I’m off to an office to film some girl-on-girl content. I always say my sexual orientation is bi-curious because, although I have had sex with quite a lot of women at high-class sex parties and while filming content, I haven’t actually dated a girl, so I wouldn’t say I was fully bisexual.
My gorgeous filming partner and I shot some foot content and had some fun fooling around, which I think would have happened regardless of whether the camera was rolling or not.
More camming today but, yet again, it’s the dog walker that stands out in my mind.
He sent me a message in the hopes of meeting up over the weekend, which I eagerly agreed to. It’s been a while since I got physical with a man, and I’m craving it.
Fridays tend to be the most fetish-filled day of the week.
Today, role-play has taken centre stage. I’ve been a stepmum, nurse, secretary and cheerleader. I know, I know, incredible range. And before you ask, I do have a lot of dress-up outfits, costumes, and props for my shows.
Something I get asked a lot (and today was no exception) is if I ever actually orgasm during shows. And the answer is YES! My magic wand, remote-controlled toy, and glass dildo really do it for me.
Today is the day of my date with the dog walker, so I chose a black dress to wear, which I made sure left very little to the imagination.
The date was going really well, and I was sure to tell him about my job early. I don’t want it to go smoothly, only to find that he’s too insecure to sleep with a cam model.
Thankfully, his response to this discovery was that of pure fascination. At this point, one thing was definitely leading to another, and it wasn’t long before we migrated from the bar to my bedroom.
There was a lot of foreplay and dirty talk before we did the deed. He stayed over, and I felt sure we’d enjoy round two in the morning.
Well, I’m happy to report that round two certainly happened! He is a few years younger than me so has the energy to keep up with my sex drive.
After he leaves, I enjoy a lazy Sunday recovering from a busy and extremely kinky work week. But I still made sure to fit in some self-love later on, thinking about Mr Dog Walker’s aptitude in the bedroom.
This psyches me up for another week of the unknown…
Ellie shares her content on online fetish platform, MyFet.
*Names have been changed.
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